In time of tragedy, or any natural or man-made disaster, your survival may depend on how well you become a gray man.
The rich are not very good at being gray men and women.
They love to flash their wealth and status whenever possible.
That is why they are such obvious targets for thieves and other criminals.
But you can avoid being a target by adopting a manner and lifestyle that does not make you an obvious person or target.
In this post, we will look at how to become a gray man and blend in.
So, keep reading to find out how you can lose your individuality per se when you are in a crowd and looking to survive a disaster.
The Definition of a Gray Man
You may or may not have heard of this term and its meaning is very simple.
A gray man is a man or woman who can blend into their surroundings so well that no one notices them.
It is sort of like being invisible but you are there hiding in plain sight.
Many people have experienced this situation.
They just live ordinary lives, go to and from work and rarely go out to a party or make any statement in public.
They just quietly live their lives and no one may notice even after they are gone.
While this situation is not good for mental health, it is ideal when there are so many desperate people looking for victims so that they can survive the tragedy.
The Benefits of Becoming a Gray Man
There is really only one benefit that you will get by blending in.
Your odds of survival go up and that is most important when disasters or other tragedies have occurred.
The goal and benefit of being a gray man are that you have a better chance of making it through over someone who does not blend in.
The fashion world continues to tell people to make a bold statement.
By that, they mean wearing loud-colored clothing, unique outfits that declare your individuality, and so on.
Those are not the things you want to do or wear when you are trying to survive.
You want as few people to remember you as possible.
That way you can go out do your errands and make it back without anyone remembering what you look like.
That is so even when you stop to help others in distress.
They may thank you but they won’t be able to describe what you look like.
That is one way how you survive.
How to be a Gray Man
This can take practice due to the fact humans grow up differently.
Some people do it naturally as they have very meek and mild personalities.
Or they do not have the money to buy expensive luxuries that show off their wealth and power.
Others need practice as they have been very individualistic throughout their lives.
Their behavior, mannerisms, speech, and more have all made them obvious targets during crisis situations.
Here is how to be a gray man:
How you behave
There are little tricks you can learn and keep eye contact to a minimum is one of them.
People will remember baby blue eyes, sharp green eyes, or those puppy dog brown eyes.
So make sure they do not get a good look at your eyes.
Another part of your personality to work on is your personal and political opinions.
Do not be antagonistic, but be ordinary and non-threatening.
Also, be discreet in your actions, especially when looking for ways to escape your location.
How you move
Don’t make sudden moves when out in public.
Those actions can be detected easily and remembered.
Be careful when navigating through crowds.
How you pass people can be remembered especially when they are sharp moves or show that you are in a hurry.
Move with the crowd when necessary and if they react to an explosion or an accident or even gunfire react with them.
You can stand out if you just shrug your shoulders and keep moving.
Wear reflective sunglasses to keep people from seeing your eyes and the fact you are scanning your surroundings.
How you dress
While many survival experts may dress in camouflage fatigues, you should avoid that option.
Unless 1,000 people in the same area are wearing them, fatigues are easily noticed and remembered.
Also, you do not need to dress in gray-colored clothing either.
Use discreet colors that may be muted or dark in tone.
Bright colors are a no-no as you do not want people to notice you.
In addition, make sure to remove any reflective tags or accessories from those pieces of clothing.
They are easily remembered as well and can catch someone’s eye that you would rather not meet.
In other words, be a plain Jane or Joe when you are outside.
Make sure you are carrying glasses, a scarf, a hat, and other items that can alter your appearance.
When you are spotted, you will need to make a change to get away.
Finally, avoid wearing cologne or perfume.
The scent will easily be remembered by everyone you come near.
Carrying your gear
Find the right bag that fits your work or professional life.
Not too shabby and not too beautiful.
You want your bag to blend in as well as you do.
Keep your gear to a minimum so people do not get suspicious.
The key to being a gray man is to avoid confrontation at all costs.
Avoid those people who try to start a fight or argument.
Keep your head down and keep moving naturally and do not speed up unless you utterly have to.
Being a Gray Man Means Keeping a Low Profile
Here are some tips to help you maintain invisibility and avoid drawing attention to yourself:
- Do not show off supplies, equipment, weapons, luxury items, and similar objects. Do not let anyone know you are prepared.
- Avoid any arguments, debates, or political conversations. Your opinions may be too radical or contrary to be forgotten easily
- Keep personal information about your family and yourself private. Use an alias if you must talk to others
- Wear shoes that allow you to move fast as well as keep your traction. Hiking boots are not one of those items nor are high heels.
- Watch your body language. If you are carrying lots of money, don’t act like you are.
- Backpacks or other bags should always have a neutral color. Plus, keep any shimmering military items hidden. Inside the bag make sure you have enough supplies to get home.
- Stop advertising your schedule on social media. Keep your comings and going private so you do not set yourself up as a potential target.
- If the power goes out at night, do not light it up until you see how dark or lit the houses in your neighborhood are. You want to be the same as everyone else. Or put up blackout curtains to contain the light.
- Remove labels from packages to hide where you are getting your supplies. Burn them if possible so no one learns your secrets.
- Be very familiar with your surroundings. Know landmarks, street names, and more. That way you can avoid trouble areas and get home quicker.
Tips on Being Completely Gray
Keep your home gray
Control the keys to your home, garage, and gates strictly.
Make sure you know who has copies and where they are at all times.
Then park your car in a garage that can be locked and when you go into your home shut the curtains before turning on the lights.
Then try to use multiple entrances and exits so a pattern does not develop.
There is only so much you can do to make your home gray.
You may not be able to blend in
Your height and weight will be factors either for you or against you.
If you are a tall heavy-set person, everyone will know who you are.
Blending in will be impossible but you can still protect yourself by making friends and asking them to be your eyes and ears on the street.
Look for signs telling you not to go outside that day.
Change your routes
Be unpredictable as that will throw off anyone who is looking to make you a target.
But watch out for dark spots or dark alleyways.
Some Final Words
Becoming a gray man or woman will take some work.
It is a different way to live than you are used to.
There will be new rules to learn and follow and this can be difficult to do.
One thing you can do is practice being invisible right now while there are no emergencies happening.
That way you will be able to make the change quicker and easier when it is the real thing.
Originally posted 2022-11-28 14:12:23.
